Getting Around Melbourne

We didn’t drive on the first few days of the trip. When we’re not on our bikes, we pretty much relied on our legs to get around. Melbourne is explorable on foot because there are plenty of sights within walking distance. Although I must say that Perth does a better job in marking out its sights for tourists. M15

When it got too cold and too far to walk, we hopped onto Tram #35 that took us around the city centre!M16


Melbourne ACMI

Today was a Museum hopping day. After the Melbourne Museum, the boys (all three of them) asked to go back to the Australian Center for Moving Images (ACMI). We’ve been here on our first day when we had a few hours to spare, but the boys all felt that they could do more playing.M11

The Screen World at the basement is literally like a game wonderland. Visitors get to play all sorts of games from the 1980s to date. Boys played a few rounds of the iconic games like Pong and Mario, and it’s amazing how KL still remember which bricks contain the mushrooms after so many years, lol!M12

Once the boys got to the modern section, their butts were literally just glued to the seats! T was mostly playing MineCraft. K and KL did not even move away from the Star Wars consoles.

I am a film and television history buff. So while they were all stuck at the games, I spent a few leisurely hours going through the Museum on my own. Awesome!M14

On our final day in Melbourne city, the boys (all three of them) asked to go to ACMI to play for the THIRD time! I bailed out on the third time and went shopping by myself instead.

Melbourne Museum

We visited the Melbourne Museum today. Plenty of things to see here. We headed to the Forest Gallery because I was really curious how a museum could fit a forest inside! Okay it wasn’t a huge forest but there were enough plants to showcase lots of facts about Australian water, earth movements, ecology and even bush fires! M8

Next, we went to see the dinosaurs. Right outside the dinosaurs’ room there was a mammoth blue whale skeleton. Boys sat next to the skeleton for their snack break and they must have watched at least 10 times the video showing how the museum put the blue whale skeleton together!M9

We skipped through three more galleries. The WWI Gallery was nicely put together and reminded us about how Australian families coped with a war that was fought so far away. The Body Gallery had some distorting mirrors that tickled the boys so much they asked to go back twice. The Mind Gallery had a dream machine that simulated archetypal dreams – boys were terrified by the one that fell off from a cliff!


Cycling in Melbourne

We rented bikes to get around today. T tried a child-sized mountain bike and he didn’t like it because he had trouble controlling the bike. Luckily the shop had a children’s add-on bike that was just the right size for him! He enjoyed cycling “as a team” with KL v much. He said that he’s helping KL go faster than the rest of us because there’s two of them pedaling. And T liked it he didn’t need to worry about balancing the bike, braking, changing directions because KL would take care of all these. He just had to pedal, that’s all.M4

Our first stop was the Melbourne Royal Botanic Gardens. We encountered quite a bit of works at the Gardens and I never figured out where all the playgrounds are. We took a pit stop at the Shrine of Remembrance. Checked out the exhibits centering on Australia’s involvement in the World Wars, and walked up to the balcony for a good view of Melbourne city.M5

Our next stop was Albert Park. We went around half of the lake before heading for lunch at the Southern Melbourne Market. And when we got there, horrors, the Market was closed! It’s only open from Wednesday to Sunday. We ate at a nearby mall instead.M6

After lunch, we went around Albert Park Lake some more. T complained when I got everyone lost, because we were cycling around the Lake when we realised that we passed the same landmark twice, oops. Each round around the Lake is 4.7km.M7

We headed back to return the bikes at four plus. By then, the sky was already getting dark and boys were tired from riding. I think we only rode 10km today. I had fun anyway, and think that we might do this again on Wednesday if the boys are up to it.

Hello Melbourne!

School is out and we’re back in Australia because we enjoyed last year’s trip v much. This time round, we’re visiting Melbourne. It was a six hour plus night flight from Singapore and T puked THREE times. Boys managed to get two to three hours of sleep, which is evidently not enough, and K even fell asleep on an airport bench after we touched down.M1

We spent three hours walking around because we couldn’t check in yet. We checked out the ACMI (boys loved it so much there’s a separate post just about it) and snapped random photos to while the time away. Below is Melbourne’s St Paul’s Cathedral, which was chiming bells non-stop on Sunday morning! M2

We finally managed to check in at 2pm. Our accommodation was a really cool serviced apartment at Melbourne CBD. It came with heated pools which the boys loved! We were on the 44th floor so that meant really excellent views of the city! We could literally see how the weather changes like crazy here … sunny one moment … dark cloud the next … sunny again. No wonder a cousin of mine said we should always be prepared with many layers in Melbourne. Weather hovers around 12 – 14 degrees in the daytime now. Chilly! M3

Bits and Pieces of May 2017


Bangkok. Me and KL took a short trip to Bangkok this month because we always like to travel together on our birthday month. While we were there, we met with Lewis to celebrate his birthday!

Spinner. Fidget spinners are all the rage now. Boys forked out $15.90 from their own savings (that’s a lot of money!) to get a spinner each. It’s the first time T ever asked to buy anything using his savings.

Photos. We needed new passport photos to replace their ezlink cards. One lost his card, while the other sat on it (now it’s bent and can’t work). The replacement fees are expensive, but it beats using adult ezlink cards because I pay so much more for them on public transport.

Crab. Salted egg yolk crab for dinner on Mother’s Day. Between this and chilli crab, I prefer chilli crab because it is wetter and tastier.

Happy 1st Birthday Issac!

Isaac turned 1 this week! Extended family gathered for a BBQ to celebrate his birthday. It was a noisy and sweaty celebration, and the cousins totally enjoyed themselves running around and accumulating sweat!

Since it was also my birthday and Kok Loon’s birthday over the weekend, the extended family celebrated for us too. Pamela – who is Isaac’s mum and ethnically Thai – made us a super delish plate of mango sticky rice. Yummy!

Mother’s Day 2017

Boys made cards for me this year. K’s card said that I do not need to do chores, but I still did laundry that night. T’s card depicted a D-Day scene because we’re reading a D-Day book together this month. I actually do not like violence and fighting, but T has not realized that yet.

May was a sickly month for us at home. K had down with high fever and cough for a week (during his mid-year exams), while I was down for two weeks after him. On Mother’s Day, I wasn’t totally recovered yet, and although we made it out of the house to meet friends for brunch and had a hearty dinner with my mum, all I wanted to do was to actually sleep the day away. Ah, hate to be sick!

Bits and Pieces of April 2017

Phones. Boys looking happy because it’s phone time! On weekends, they have a work-game-work-game routine. xx minutes of work, xx minutes of game. They have two games on their phones now – Growtopia and Pixels Survivor – both of which I have never played before.

Poems. We read a deliciously good book this month – Outside the Box: A Book of Poems – by Karma Wilson. Every single page was so good that I couldn’t even pick a favourite amongst them. Neither could they.

Comics. Boys are into comics now. They’re not fussy about their comics, so anything with pictures and speech bubbles get read. In English of course.

Cup. K made a cute thing out of a recycled styrofoam cup. I clear a lot of his creations when I need to keep the house tidy. But this one gets to stay on the dining table for a while more because it’s so light and frivolous!

Two Chefs

Sunday dinner at Two Chefs. Our go-to zi char place when KL wants to eat cold cockles. That dish is actually very icky, but it’s popular because it’s the 招牌菜. Really not my cup of tea. All the other dishes were yummy though!

Staycation at Capri

Impromptu decision to go on a staycation since KL did not have to work over the Good Friday weekend. We stayed at Capri by Fraser, and boys liked the fact that we could see planes land at Changi every 3 minutes or so. This is actually our second time staying at Capri but because they were so young then, they don’t remember the staycation four years ago.

Boys didn’t leave the hotel much. They swam, played xbox, played with their phones and watched movies in the room. Good break for everyone!


Birthday Lunch

Birthday boy wanted to meet his cousins, so I organized a family lunch for him with as many extended family members as can be gathered. One of his fav cousin couldn’t make it, and his 爷爷 was too sick to come. Otherwise, it was a happy enough gathering for him – seeing so many of his relatives and getting a big stack of ang pows. Before he went to bed, he said he enjoyed his birthday weekend very much 🙂

Happy 10th Birthday!

7Apr17bK turned TEN on Friday! KL got him some science toys and I made him some vouchers to be used in the next 365 days. K went to school as usual on Friday. Except that they counted him as a ten-year-old instead of nine-year-old for his Napfa test that afternoon.

Dinner was at a Jap restaurant at Clementi Mall because birthday boy likes Jap food. Actually birthday boy also likes Mac, so we allowed him to munch on a Happy Meal while waiting for his udon.

T was generally upset the whole day, as he usually is on the day his brother celebrates his birthday. In the morning when T saw the vouchers, he was already visibly jealous. He declared that he didn’t want a single present on his birthday so we should just get him a lot of vouchers instead. In the evening when he heard that the terms of the vouchers didn’t include him (for example 1 hour of screen time doesn’t mean that he gets to play with his brother, it just means that his brother plays alone), that was devastating. At dinner, the boys were joking with T that he didn’t have arm muscles (which is true, he doesn’t have)… and you know what, he burst out crying, coughed a lot, and puked out all his cha soba dinner. He wasn’t allergic to the food, but he had a fever the day before and was feeling under the weather still. Anyway, the whole situation was really quite ridiculous!


K is one day shy of 10 years old! Me and T sang him a birthday song for fun with some biscuits and a tealight. K decided to make funny messages and they gamely posed for pics to send to their papa, who’s on call tonight.

Watching movies

K and T enjoy watching movie nowadays, but movie treats are rather expensive in Singapore if you add in a meal before/after the show, popcorn, drinks etc. So we head over to JB to watch movies instead. These are all the shows I can remember off the top of my head that they watched recently …

  • Sing
  • Doctor Strange
  • Trolls
  • Star Wars: Rogue One
  • xXx: Return of Zander Cage
  • Kong: Skull Island


When we are in JB, we like to stay over so that we don’t have to go through customs twice in a day. We get time to eat, shop, and sometimes even catch two movies. So far we’ve already tried 10 different hotels in JB! Last weekend’s hotel was only S$39++ per room per night on Agoda. We booked two rooms, but the boys decided to huddle together on the floor to sleep. So there was quite a lot of space for nothing. Oh well.


K learnt to cook instant noodles at an outdoor activity in school. He’s been wanting to cook again at home. So today, he cooked dinner for himself and his brother! They ate 出前一丁 sesame oil noodles with corn.

I gave him verbal instructions in the kitchen because I did not want him to handle the stove without adult supervision. T hovered around the kitchen as he wanted to be part of the action too. T helped to mix the seasoning into the soup, and he has grand plans to learn how to cook spaghetti on his own!

K did the dishes after dinner. Awesome!

Cherish the simple things

Life is good. No one is sick at home. Adults are gainfully employed. We can afford the time to spend the money that we earn. Children are coping well in school, and by that I really mean that T’s teachers have stopped calling me to complain. Hardest decision to make on a Saturday is where to have lunch.

Cherish the simple things.

Bits and Pieces of March 2017

KL is crazy about Japanese food now. When he’s off work, he’s always planning his day around the Japanese eateries he wants to try. We’ve been chugging along to eat udon and sushi with him for many weeks!

T discovered Mos Burger not too long ago. He likes their cheeseburgers and would eat TWO at one go. I like Mos myself. It’s the only fast food restaurant that I will happily eat at!

K won a medal for a team sport at his school’s sports day. My first time turning up for an event at this current primary school! See if you can spot him in the crowd …

How to survive anything?

T is very captivated with this particular book now – How to Survive Anything: Boys Only. He’s been pouring over the pages and looking at every scenario intently.

Ever since we’ve started reading to him about natural disasters a few years ago, he’s been worried that he’ll die in one (see here and here). Among his other worries are being caught in a plane crash, being struck by lightning, etc.

Before he went to bed last night, he passed the book to his father and told his father to read it on his own because to T, the information within is really very important to know. This morning when he was up, he started reading it again and he told me that although I am a girl, I can read the plane crash scenario because it could happen to me. He told me that I could skip the whiteout section because it’s not likely to happen to me, and of course I could skip the zombie section because zombies don’t exist.

Masking tape game


  1. Tear off stripes of masking tape.
  2. Stick one on your face and one on your brother’s face.
  3. At the count of three, grab your brother’s tape while protecting your own.
  4. First one to get eight stripes of tape wins.

* Game was ridiculously funny! Awesome that their childhood is filled with ridiculous things like that!


We’ve finally saved enough to buy a Lego Mindstorms set! Since October, I’ve been sending the boys to school on foot a few days a week. It started out as a punishment for them because I caught them lying and this was one of their entitlements that I slashed. As the weeks passed, it turned out to be a good arrangement because after I drop them off on foot, I get to work on foot as well. Exercising in the morning makes me rather happy =)  I cancelled my office season parking and with all the money saved over half a year, we bought a S$560 toy!

Boys didn’t want to do anything during their March holidays except stay at home to play with their new toy. Which was perfectly fine with me, because this meant that I just went to work everyday without needing to bring them out. KL was super busy being attached to the surgery department, so he couldn’t bring them out either.

On Monday, their cousins came over to play. On Wednesday, a friend came over to play. Some other days they had Chinese tuition, and their tutor treated them to a nice lunch on Thursday. All in all, it was good break for them. Although one week was really not enough to finish building all the possible models in the Mindstorms Ev3 set. T was not able to follow all the instructions, so it left to K to do majority of the building (with a lot of help from Google). It’ll have to be the weekend before they can pick up the set to play again!


K has been asking to go running because he wants to practice running 1.6km (fitness test in school). This is the second weekend we’re running together. We did 4km in 45 mins at Marina Bay. He jogged in the first 20 min, and then jogged + walked in the last 25 min.

T is absolutely not ready to join us in our jogs … yet. We’ll always bring along a bicycle or scooter for him.


National Gallery

Made a pact with T last week. If he can get by the entire week without a single teacher calling me to complain about his behaviour, I’ll reward him with a trip to the museum. Yeah, he managed to behave really well (which just meant that he behaved like a normal 8-year-old) so we visited the National Gallery today!

I’ve already been to the National Gallery once with my colleagues, and found 90% of the artwork boring. There was only one room that I really enjoyed on the second floor, which featured Singapore art in the 1990s – 2000s. I especially liked this clinking lighbulb installation that was totally irreverent and irrelevant …

Boys didn’t enjoy the visit as much as me. K says it was just a bit fun. KL thinks the Supreme Court should be commercialised into a hotel *roll my eyes*.

Bits and Pieces of February 2017

Cousins played blackjack on the last day of CNY. My brother was the banker. K earned $3 that evening. T didn’t join the game. He played Lego with a younger cousin instead.

Coke light and eggs were assembled for a science experiment. T had to soak one raw egg and one hard boiled egg in the liquid for 48 hours. One of the egg’s shell was supposed to drop off, and the other was supposed to be bouncy after that. But the experiment didn’t work. I suspect we should have used regular soda instead of diet soda.

Lovely note from K. He made breakfast for me one Saturday – four slices of bread with jam, complete with heart cut outs. The jam was too sweet for my liking (I’m trying to cut out sugar in my life), but I ate two slices anyway because of the amount of effort he put into the breakfast.

Shooting erasers with rubber bands. K has been making rubber band shooters for at least two years, but T has never been interested in shooting. On a particularly idle weekend, we made T sit down to shoot erasers with rubber bands. Because his aiming is so bad, he has to sit really close to the target to hit it, lol!

Worst Valentine’s Day

T told many lies today.

He was supposed to turn up at his Chinese tuition teacher’s house at 2.30pm. When he didn’t turn up and she called him, he said he didn’t know how to get there. Which is a lie, because he has been walking on his own to her house for months. She offered to walk to our place to pick him up, and she actually did so. But he did no pick up her calls and he never showed up to meet her downstairs. She charged me the fees for today anyway. She knew he lied and I knew he lied.

He was supposed to use $2 to buy a 听写 book from the school bookshop. He did not buy it because he claimed he did not know how to buy it. He did not ask his brother for help to buy it. He did not tell me he spent the money on snacks instead until I asked him about the book. And he was definitely not supposed to have bought such an expensive snack because he had to spend within his means (which is already a very generous $4 a day for two meals in school).

He played games on the tablet at home when he was alone. Nobody is allowed to play games in our family on weekdays ever ever ever. And he knows it well because over the December holidays, he and K were already punished for telling lies when they played games on my computer on a particular week. Anyway, T played a few games and he lied about it.

As a punishment, he was sent to bed at 7pm because I did not even want to see his face anymore. He was smacked on his hand by his father. There is no fruits and supper for him tonight, no breakfast for him tomorrow. When the boys lied in December, I stopped giving them some of the things they liked for the next three months (no bubble tea, no car to send them to school every morning). That is going to end in February. But because T lied so many times today, I will have to stop giving him some of the things he likes for the next three months (no pasta at all, no car to send them to school for another three months).

I realized at about 10pm that he did not do any of his homework because he was playing the tablet today and sent to bed early. I wanted him to get scolded in school tomorrow, but close to 11pm, he actually got out of bed and told me he could not sleep. I forced him to do his homework, and watching him do homework so close to midnight is just mad.

I cannot imagine how much of a compulsive liar he will grow up to be. This is absolutely the worst Valentine’s Day ever.


Boys were very tired when they visited their grandparents today. They completely knocked out on the car ride to/from Bendemeer. That’s because I mentioned the 守夜 custom to them in passing and even though I told them that it doesn’t apply to children, both decided to STAY AWAKE TILL MIDNIGHT on 除夕. Lights went out at 9 plus as usual and I didn’t even know they were still awake until they came to ask me what’s the time at 11 plus. Crazy little boys!